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I picked up Peanut from her birth parent visit and was pulled aside by the supervisor to tell me to always pack formula and to write her a note of when Peanut last ate. I was/ am pissed. I always tell them when she last ate, and that never stopped mom from making a new bottle that she wouldn't eat because she wasn't hungry. I packed a remaining bottle for Peanut to finish during the visit. I know that mom thinks she knows best for her daughter. I get that she wants to be in charge. But the truth of the matter is that Peanut doesn't know her and I totally believe she cries during the full visit because mom doesn't know how to handle her. It is just so frustrating to be talked to like that. One thing I don't handle well is when someone tells me that I am not doing a good job parenting or that someone implies it. I know the supervisor just wants to stay informed, but I am really upset that mom accused me of underfeeding Peanut. Urgh...